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Home for the Holidays: 4 Things to Watch While Spending Time with Aging Loved Ones This Season

The holidays are upon us, and with them comes a whirlwind of activity! While enjoying the festivities and family time, remember to take a moment to observe how your aging parents are managing their everyday lives. This time together provides a great opportunity to assess their well-being and see if they could benefit from some additional support. Here’s what to keep an eye on:

  1. Around the House:
    • Home Maintenance: Is their home tidy and in good condition? Are there any signs of neglect, such as unmowed lawns or undone household chores?
    • Meal Preparation: Are they eating balanced meals regularly? Is their refrigerator stocked with fresh food, or are there signs that meal preparation is becoming a challenge?
    • Personal Care: Observe their personal care habits. Are they bathing and dressing regularly, and do they seem to be taking care of themselves?
  1. Daily Life:
    • Getting Around: How easily are they moving around the house? Do they have any difficulty with stairs, getting in and out of chairs, or walking?
    • Medication Management: Are they managing their medications effectively? Are their pills organized, or do they seem to be having trouble keeping track of their medications?
    • Cognitive Function: Are they following conversations, remembering events, and managing their finances without difficulty? Are there any signs of confusion or memory lapses?
  1. Social and Emotional Well-being:
    • Social Connections: Are they engaging in conversations and participating in family activities? Or are they more withdrawn than usual and less interested in socializing?
    • Mood and Temperament: Be aware of any changes in their mood, such as increased sadness, anxiety, or frustration. Do they seem content and happy?
    • Hobbies and Pastimes: Are they still pursuing hobbies and activities they enjoy? Are they staying active and engaged?
  1. Safety:
    • Driving Skills: If they’re still driving, observe their driving habits. Are they confident and attentive drivers?
    • Risk of Falls: Have they had any recent falls or stumbles? Are they steady on their feet, or do they seem unsteady or have difficulty with balance?
    • Home Hazards: Are there any potential hazards in their home, such as slippery floors or poor lighting, that could increase their risk of falls or accidents?

Taking the Next Step:

The holidays can be a joyful time, but they can also reveal subtle signs that our aging parents may need a little extra help. By being observant and proactive, you can help ensure they receive the care and support they need to live fulfilling lives.

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Assessing Your Aging Parents’ Well-being at Home